The Secret Within: Chapter 4, The Anatomy of Pain

The Secret Within is a book I’m writing about the art of finding happiness and peace amidst personal difficulties.  This is the fourth installment. Previous installments can be found here. ————————————————————— 4. The Anatomy of Pain Pain associated with major loss goes through three stages: First, it utterly destroys us. In time, many people develop …

The Secret Within: Chapter 3, The Miracle of We

The Secret Within is a book I’m writing about the art of finding happiness and peace amidst personal difficulties.  This is the third installment. Previous installments can be found here. ——————————————————— 3. The Miracle of We The essence of life is relationships. A palpable energy is felt in relationships that American philosopher Ken Wilber calls …

The Secret Within: Chapter 2, The Simple Feeling of Being

The Secret Within is a book I’m writing about the art of finding happiness and peace amidst personal difficulties.  This is the second installment. Previous installments can be found here. ————————————————————— 2. The Simple Feeling of Being Without conscious effort, we transition from embryo to baby to child, then to adolescent, adult, and finally, elder. …

The Secret Within- Chapter 1

The Secret Within is a book I’m writing about the art of finding happiness and peace amidst personal difficulties.  This is the first installment. The preface to the book can be found here. —————————————————————— 1. Introduction Shortly after the birth of our first child, I took up running. Dan was born with myelomeningocele, a serious …

The Secret Within

My summer sabbatical from weekly blog posts was energizing. After several false starts, I finally started progressing on my new book, The Secret Within, which explores the challenge of finding happiness and peace amidst personal difficulties. As promised, I’ll be sharing draft installments on this blog.  This week, I’m sharing the preface to the book. …

Summer Sabbatical

Like a movie, life has specific scenes that stick in our minds.  Like this one: It was Springtime 1973. I was driving north on Geyer Road in my hometown of Kirkwood, Missouri. A high school friend was riding shotgun. We were Seniors. Soon, friends would disperse like dandelion seeds. As we approached Kirkwood Park, my …

In Memoriam

This past week, I lost a business mentor and good friend, Dr. Richard T. Crowder. Dr. Crowder served as the Chief Agricultural Trade Negotiator in the office of The United States Trade Representative and as Undersecretary of Agriculture for International Affairs. More recently, Dr. Crowder was the C.G. Thornhill Professor of Agricultural Trade at Virginia …

The Power In A Name

I was walking through the neighborhood recently when I saw a woman I recognized working in her yard. Georgia? Is that you? She looked up, and I could tell she didn’t quite recognize me. Breaking the tension, I said, “It’s Tim; you sold us our house on Merritt Circle thirty-eight years ago! “Tim, it’s you!” …