Our Shadow Side: Why We Can’t See It, and What to Do When Someone Clues Us In

Perhaps you're familiar with shadow work — a practice with roots in Carl Jung’s psychology that explores the unconscious, "darker" parts of one's personality to increase self-awareness and improve relationships.  We are usually blind to our shadow side, even though others see it clearly. Everyone has a shadow, but it’s rarely confronted because its traits …

The Beauty of Wisdom

We live in an age when the world’s knowledge is available everywhere, all the time, served up to anyone with an internet connection. We assume we are different —modern, intelligent, informed, and more advanced than those who came before us. However, there is scant evidence to support that view regarding our internal well-being. Around forty …

Mom

Today, we honor mothers’ contributions to our lives. It’s impossible to separate the part of me that comes from Mom. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.  As we get older, our relationship with time changes. Time moves out of the shadows and assumes a position of prominence. Mom left us seventeen …

Living From Presence

Let’s say you are at the park and see a 5-year-old girl playing on a swingset.  There’s nothing special about that; you notice her and move on. Alternatively, what if that 5-year-old is your daughter or granddaughter?  The Austrian-Israeli philosopher Martin Buber contrasted such experiences, describing them as “I-It,” vs. “I-Thou” encounters. “I-Its” are dispassionately …

Silent Fitness: Part 1, Awakening to Awareness

The Secret Within-Part 1 A special thanks to everyone who bought The Secret Within last week, propelling it briefly to #3 on Amazon’s new releases in the Emotional Mental Health category. Reviews posted on Amazon are greatly appreciated!  This post, along with two more that follow, provides a brief preview of the book. ———————————————————— Part …

It’s Finally Here!

Announcing the publication of my new book, The Secret Within: Finding Peace In Hard Times, by Clipston Publishing, now available on Amazon.  How does one live joyfully despite difficult circumstances?  Here’s what I learned after many years. Stressful events can dominate our thoughts. Learning to let go of troubling thoughts is like discovering a new …